Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?!?!

There were something that haunt me this few days...Can we be friends with our ex?

What do you think? Few of you may say "of course why not" and the other few would say "no way"...

However, there are some circumstances should be taken into account before considering whether to accept or reject the friendship with your ex...





You have to face the fact that he/ she is meeting someone new. If you are rational enough, your ex might update you about the new partner. Jealousy will come into picture when you feel he/she is not the same as used to be...They might have change them self to fit into the new relationship..


This will also lead to unfaithfulness if you are attached to someone new.Things will turn up to be worst and unpleasant if you don't inform you new partner about this. Not everyone can take it in a positive way if you keep in touch with you ex.

The worst one could be, when you both can fix what when wrong and get back to the love cycle again. The nightmare might happen again...


I personally think that there should be zero contact with your ex because it will bring back those old feelings and hurts more...How about you?

Woman's Day

On the occasion of Women's day ( March 8th), I would like to wish all woman's the best things: beauty, happiness, success and prosperity.Wish you the loveliest day of the year when the women and beauty must be most venerated.

A song for all you....one of my favorite song...enjoy yourself and have a great weekend!!! :D

A tribute to a special friend

Let me begin my blog something about a gal …

I would like to write up something about Nithya who means a lot to me…At times I sit back n think how did I became so close to this gal, who was completely a stranger to me…She is an angel who was sent over to me by god..She has made me understand that friends are not only when you are happy…

Whenever I've problem, I did keep it to myself…but by listening my voice tone over the phone, Nithya can know whether I am sad or happy…she won’t ask why am I sad but she will try her best to make me happy…and she did made me happy in many occasion. At one point of time, I feel comfortable to share all my tears, happiness and even everything that made my day…

Although she is younger than me, she does advise me to get better and be someone in life...When I finished my studies, she encourage me to change job and mingle around with new environment to broaden my job scope..I saw the happiness in her face when i gave her a surprise with my new car...

Even though we do have some misunderstanding, our friendship does not go to an end with a full stop but continued with a coma till now and forever...

A song for all of you... :)


Blogging

Hi everyone, I've just came to know that I'm member of this blog since 2007....Actually I been posting some poems and write up somewhere last year and was not actively doing it. So I think I'm going to do some write up by my own......something about things happening around me and things that can actually has touched my life and others...... No worries, it would be something interesting................ So stay tune...........for new updates from me. See you soon ....friends!!!!!!!!!






Varnam Aayiram Song and Lyrics

Song : Annal Mele Pani Thuli
Singer : Sudha Raghunathan

Annal Mele Pani Thuli
Alaipayum oru kili
Maram thedum mazhai thuli
Ivaithaane ival ini
Imai irandum thani thani
Urakangal urai pani
Edarkaagha tadai nee


Annal Mele Pani Thuli
Alaipayum oru kili
Maram thedum mazhai thuli
Ivaithaane ival ini
Imai irandum thani thani
Urakangal urai pani
Edarkaagha tadai nee


Yenda kaatrin alavalil malaridalgal virinthidumo
Yenden theva vinadiyil manaraigal thirandidumo
Oru siluvalile iranthadume
En idayatile idayatile
Unadiravile tadaviyadal amilnthuvitten mayakathile
Oru iratume udalin thirai
Adu thaan ini nilavin karai karai


Annal Mele Pani Thuli
Alaipayum oru kili
Maram thedum mazhai thuli
Ivaithaane ival ini
Imai irandum thani thani
Urakangal urai paniEdarkaagha tadai nee



Garlic, The Raw Truth


Raw garlic may prevent blood clots and keep blood pressure down, but most recipes call for cooked garlic. Scientists in the US and Argentina decided to look into the benefits of both. They heated the bulb several ways and found that when baked or boiled for up to three minutes, it's just as healthy as raw. Crushed garlic is even better: it retains some benefits when cooked for up to six minutes (crushing seems to release more of the healthy thiosulfinates). Microwaved arlic, however, was dud: nuking for even a few minutes neutralised garlic's antilotting effects. Study author Philipp Simon suspects that lightly sauteed garlic also keep its heart-healthy, but he hasn't tested this method.


The next time you are making a garlicky dish, such as spagetti sauce, add the garlic near the end of cooking and crush it for more taste and benefit. A post- dinner mint is, of course, optional.
Source: Reader's Digest

Rice is the culprit!!!

Eat Less Rice!

The human body was never meant to consume rice! You see, our genes have hardly changed in more than 30,000 years. However, our food choices and lifestyle have changed dramatically.

The caveman would hardly recognise our food or way of life.
Caveman food was never cooked as fire was not yet tamed. Thus, he ate only those foods that you can eat without treatment with or by fire. He ate fruits, vegetables, fish (sushi anyone?), eggs, nuts and meat. Yes, even meat. You can even eat meat raw if you were starving in the forest. You have the necessary enzymes to digest meat.

However, rice, like wheat and corn, cannot be eaten raw. It must be cooked. Even if you were starving in the desert, you cannot eat rice in the raw form. This is because we do not have the system of enzymes to break rice down. You were never meant to eat rice. To make matters worse, you not only eat rice, but also make it the bulk of your food.

In some parts of Asia , rice forms up to 85% of the plate. Even if you take rice, keep it to a minimum. Remember, it is only for your tongue - not your body. Actually, rice and other grains like wheat and corn are actually worse than sugar. There are many reasons:
Rice becomes sugar - lots of it!

This is a fact that no nutritionist can deny: rice is chemically no different from sugar. One bowl of cooked rice is the caloric equal of 10 teaspoons of sugar. This does not matter whether it is white, brown or herbal rice. Brown rice is richer in fibre, some B vitamins and minerals but it is still the caloric equal of 10 teaspoons of sugar. To get the same 10 teaspoons of sugar, you need to consume lots of kangkong-10 bowls of it.

Rice is digested to become sugar.
Rice cannot be digested before it is thoroughly cooked. However, when thoroughly cooked, it becomes sugar and spikes circulating blood sugar within half an hour-almost as quickly as it would if you took a sugar candy. Rice is very low in the 'rainbow of anti-oxidants. '

This complete anti-oxidant rainbow is necessary for the effective and safe utilisation of sugar. Fruits come with a sugar called fructose. However, they are not empty calories as the fruit is packed with a whole host of other nutrients that help its proper assimilation and digestion.

Rice has no fibre. The fibre of the kangkong fills you up long before your blood sugar spikes. This is because the fibre bulks and fills up your stomach. Since white rice has no fibre, you end up eating lots of 'calorie dense' food before you get filled up. Brown rice has more fibre but still the same amount of sugar.

Rice is tasteless-sugar is sweet. There is only so much that you can eat at one sitting. How many teaspoons of sugar can you eat before you feel like throwing up? Could you imagine eating 10 teaspoons of sugar in one seating?

Rice is always the main part of the meal. While sugar may fill your dessert or sweeten your coffee, it will never be the main part of any meal. You could eat maybe two to three teaspoons of sugar at one meal. However, you could easily eat the equal value of two to three bowls (20-30 teaspoons) of sugar in one meal. I am always amused when I see someone eat sometimes five bowls of rice (equals 50 teaspoons of sugar) and then asks for tea tarik kurang manis!

There is no real 'built in' mechanism for us to prevent overeating of rice:

How much kangkong can you eat?
How much fried chicken can you eat?
How much steamed fish can you eat? T
hink about that! In one seating, you cannot take lots of chicken, fish or cucumber, but you can take lots of rice. Eating rice causes you to eat more salt.

As rice is tasteless, you tend to consume more salt-another villain when it comes to high blood pressure. You tend to take more curry that has salt to help flavor rice. We also tend to consume more ketchup and soy sauce which are also rich in salt.

Eating rice causes you to drink less water. The more rice you eat, the less water you will drink as there is no mechanism to prevent the overeating of rice. Rice, wheat and corn come hidden in our daily food. As rice is tasteless, it tends to end up in other foods that substitute rice like rice flour, noodles and bread. We tend to eat the hidden forms which still get digested into sugar. Rice, even when cooked, is difficult to digest.

Can't eat raw rice? Try eating rice half cooked. Contrary to popular belief, rice is very difficult to digest. It is 'heavy stuff'. If you have problems with digestion, try skipping rice for a few days. You will be amazed at how the problem will just go away. Rice prevents the absorption of several vitamins and minerals. Rice when taken in bulk will reduce the absorption of vital nutrients like zinc, iron and the B vitamins.

Are you a rice addict? Going rice-less may not be easy but you can go rice-less. Eating less rice could be lot easier than you think. Here are some strategies that you can pursue in your quest to eat less rice:

Eat less rice-cut your rice by half. Barry Sears, author of the Zone Diet, advises 'eating rice like spice'.

Instead, increase your fruits and vegetables. Take more lean meats and fish. You can even take more eggs and nuts. Have 'riceless' meals. Take no rice or wheat at say, breakfast. Go for eggs instead.

Go on 'riceless' days-Go 'western' once a week.

Take no rice and breads for one day every week. That can't be too difficult. Appreciate the richness of your food. Go for taste, colours and smells. Make eating a culinary delight. Enjoy your food in the original flavours.

Avoid the salt shaker or ketchup. You will automatically eat less rice.

Eat your fruit dessert before (Yes! No printing error) your meals. The fibre rich fruits will 'bulk up' in your stomach. Thus, you will eat less rice and more fruits. It's your life. Decide what you want to eat!